Here is what I hope we get out of it:
- Easy homework takes 15 minutes of work, instead of 15 minutes of work and two hours of staring/rolling/slumping/tapping pencils/singing/whining/chit-chatting/walking around
- Less disruptive, goofing off behavior at school
- Ability to remember and perform three or more tasks given to him at once (now I have to ask him to do things one at a time, & maybe I can get two "get your socks on and brush your teeth." Usually I send him back to his room for one task, and find him playing with Mario figures, or drawing/writing ten minutes later)
- Not so ready with the word No when I ask him to do something. Luckily he limits this to me and doesn't share it with his teachers, and he winds up what doing what I asked without a fuss, but almost always his first response is No. Booger.
And that's it. Focus and willingness. Is that too much to ask? I know I could put him on ADHD meds and be done with it, but while we have the money, I want to exhaust other options first. (Well, not all other options. Chris says, "More beatings!")
Wish us luck!
Christopher would like to add to our list
- willingness to try new foods
- less anger & sulkiness when honest, gentle, constructive criticism is offered
I'll be interested in the "less sulkiness when constructive criticism is offered" being as I haven't mastered that yet, either.
ReplyDeleteMy son didn't really have any academic problems, but he had some other quirks. He was extremely violent towards the family at home (no problems at school. There he was an angel). We took him to a psychiatrist. For $4500 he helped us understand him & for instance see he TV watching as self-medication ("Think about punishing him by withdrawing TV or video games because w/o that 'medication' he might begin to look elsewhere..." drugs etc)
ReplyDeleteWith my NAET acupuncturist (Pam Bemis) we began addressing his issues too. First, she cured his extreme fear of thunder & fireworks. Then she began to eliminate or reduce his fears & extreme imbalances.
Pam also balances the brain, plus the organs, emotions, etc. Plus NAET teaches the body to ignore allergens. And "allergens" aren't just pollen or a food, but also include things like other people, thunder, emotions, etc.
My son is still weird but rarely violent, is ultra responsible - especially academically, which was a real surprise. (He changed from a so-so student - happy w/a B/B-, to a top of his class kind of student
Since you're already paying big money for "weird" medicine (like I do regularly), I'm going to email you Pam's info.=, and tell you that she even treats people at a distance - they don't have to be in her office in Boston. I'll let you decide whether you want to pursue it or not. Good luck!